I am a forty plus year old Australian, who is married with two young boys. I'm also gay. While I've always realised this (well, for as long as I can remember), I've only really accepted it recently. My wife has been extremely understanding and we are working together to ensure we continue to have a loving family for our boys to grow up in.
One of the primary drivers in my accepting myself was a succession of quality gay fiction that I had found on the internet. It was through these that I eventually found a little corner of the web where I was welcomed. I will be forever indebted to the folk at DeweyWriter for the support they have provided me.